THE MATRIARCH

For mothers ready to change their legacy. 

Making a difference in the world starts with your family.  FREE LIVE virtual experience to transform from MOTHER to MATRIARCH.
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Who is a MATRIARCH?

She is a powerful, influential woman.

A  leader within her family.


She invests in her personal interests and contributes to her community.


She has an inner strength, a commitment to the greater good, and an ability to love with wisdom and without condition.

She is the ultimate woman.
Her value is in her 'essence'.

Somewhere along the line motherhood was devalued to the role of 'servant'. We started following our children around tidying up after them, making sure they tied their shoe laces, ate their dinner, did their homework and got to school on time. And when that became impossible (and let's face it downright boring) we internalised that we were 'not good enough'. That we were 'failing'. A 'bad mother'.

Well I've had enough of that narrative. The world needs us to step into being great leaders within our families and local communities. Our children, and our children's children, need us to change our generational legacy.

Great leaders don't micro-manage - they EMPOWER.
Great leaders don't cajole or bribe - they INSPIRE.
Great leaders don't tell or teach - they GUIDE.
Great leaders ROLE MODEL the behaviour they want to see in their team...

And they are prepared to fail forward alongside those who follow.

Great leaders don't micro-manage - they EMPOWER.
Great leaders don't cajole or bribe - they INSPIRE.
Great leaders don't tell or teach - they GUIDE.
Great leaders ROLE MODEL the behaviour they want to see in their family...

And they are prepared to fail forward alongside those they lead.

Imagine what becomes possible for YOUR FAMILY when YOU step forward to lead, empower, inspire and guide - as a MATRIARCH.

The alternative is staying stuck as the servant

- Unfulfilled, resentful because you have sacrificed EVERYTHING for your family and no-one seems to care.

- You get further away from your feisty, inspiring, creative self and settle for compromise, being the person expected to hold it all together, even when you are falling apart inside.

- You remain full of conflicting feelings because whilst you love your kids, and want to be a hands on mum, you also are so bored that you dream of the ultimate sin of a mother - running away. You don't, so the anger and rage builds up. 'Aaahhhhhhh!' There you go again - losing the plot. Out of control. Put the lid back on. Try to smile. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself 'I can do this, I am enough'. Cry - because you can't ever believe that could be true for you.

- What scares you the most is even if you could have your freedom back you no longer know what you would do. Better that you immerse yourself in finding purpose 'fixing your kids' because that dream of making a difference in the world seems a long way away. Impossible. And that makes you sad. Anxious at times. Lights Off.

Come and learn the path to becoming...
THE MATRIARCH

The inspirational mum who changes her LEGACY and leads her family to success.

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"It has been such a pleasure to work with you and I really feel like I have found my tribe. I’m so in awe of your super power - not only what you see in people but the way you communicate with them and the ease with which you see their next steps. You’ve certainly needed these super powers with me!!"

- Helen

"You are the ‘teacher’ I’ll always remember...Through your passion and the most fantastic of your gifts, beyond ‘seeing’ people, the space you give people, big enough for them to be who they are, right there and then. The world needs your unique perspective you are reaching hearts where hearts aren’t aware they need to be reached, you guide humans to their truth. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And for my future self thank you. For my children’s wealth, health and happiness. Thank you. Just thank you!"

- Charlotte

"We have been on an incredible adventure together. I am so happy you came into our lives Julia. You are an incredible person and inspiration. Thank you so much for the opportunities you have given me and my family. I have loved growing alongside you and I will keep showing up for myself. Thank you."

- Nadia

 

 

 

 

 

MOTHER

Wow - what a life-changing moment.

Nothing prepares you for that moment you
look into your child's eyes and you see
their purest essence staring back at you.

You are now MUM!

SERVANT

Ok - so it is not as easy as you were led to
believe. Who said you could have it all? 

How did you end up here sacrificing
everything for your family and still see
their lights go dim?

MATRIARCH

Now we're talking! Yes!

Full of a sense of inner wisdom and tapping
into your truest power. You are respected,
valued and fulfilled Lights On® mum. 

That essence you were born with is back! 

Hi, I'm Julia Black


I'm a mother to two teenagers, a natural born social entrepreneur, a story teller and master neurocoach.

In my life before kids I was a world adventurer and a BAFTA and Grierson nominated filmmaker. I've always had a passion for creating social change in the world, especially through female empowerment.

When I became a mum I narrowed my changemaker focus to my family. Then out to my children's village school and in 2010 I won the NCPTA Gold Star Award for Changing The Life Of The School. Since then I've been working with 1000s of children and families.

I truly believe when we invest in mothers to change their legacy the world will be a brighter place to be. I'm here to build a tribe of 10 million Lights On® families, led by their mothers, before 2025.

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"What I wanted was your approach of tough love. This fierce compassion where you really didn't let me get away with anything. You are completely committed to us growing to be the best version of ourselves and holding us so strongly."

- Claire

"Not only did I have these wonderful women to grow alongside, you didn't give up on me. You showed up and it's a combination of your integrity and compassion, and the way you so want to help people you can feel it. You made me feel safe that I wasn't going to feel squashed, shut down, exposed in my vulnerability."

- Mel

"I had to look at who I was being. I had lost touch with my needs and my passions. I had given up everything I loved doing. FLOW brings everything together. It feels right. I am in flow. It's now totally changed for Ellie and she's stepping into who she is."

- Mandy

THE MATRIARCH

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YES I AM!