Archie felt everything was pointless. School was sending him into a 'catatonic state' (his words) and he was mentally fatigued from having to cover up his boredom at school. His mum took action and now Archie's life has been transformed, for which he thanks his mum for opening his eyes to something new when she opened hers. Hear it yourself from Archie...
"After I had the first coaching call I was always going to carry on because it was just too invaluable not to. It's given us the opportunity to not have to stay with the system how it is but to make changes. I learned a lot that opened up my eyes to the fact my son can change his environment quickly. He got really excited by that prospect. It was an opportunity if I didn't do it, I knew I would regret it. There are so many things that stop us doing anything in life. I would say 'just do it'. "
Felt the negative impact of our outdated education system on your child, which has left them bored, disengaged and uninspired to learn.
Searched the internet endlessly trying to find the answers that resonate with you and no matter how many blogs you read, TED talks you watch, you are still left with the BIG question - BUT HOW DO I GET MY TEEN TO LOVE LEARNING AGAIN?!
Wrestled with your teen on a regular basis to get them up and out in time to catch the school bus.
Felt an outsider to your family and friends, because they think you're crazy you think you could do a better job educating your teen than school.
Started to worry about your teen's mental well-being, because surely being switched off for 6 hours a day, 5 days a week, 40 weeks of the year for at least 14 years is going to take its toll on their mental health. Right? Well according to Young Minds, 3 children in every classroom have a mental health problem and over half of all mental health problems manifest by the age of 14.
It has to be time to say ‘good-bye’ to the ‘old-school’ mindset!
The old-school mindset is a way of thinking about your child’s education from the ‘outside-in’ where you focus in on trying to change the external environment.
This is likely to set you and your teen up to fail BIG TIME, as your efforts to making changes around them put you up against the powers that be.
The end result of this is a lot of stress, frustration and wasted energy for you and is likely to make your teen feel even less engaged than they already feel. Because if the one person they look up to most in the world, YOU, can't seem to fix it, then what hope is there?
Because what is going to happen to your teen if you DON'T?
Old school parents focus on academic success...Lights On® parents value passion over grades so their child can live a life diving deep into their genius zone.
Old school parents make sure their children avoid failure...Lights On® parents make sure failure is a valued part of their child's success so they know what it takes to push through no matter what obstacles stand in their way.
Old school parents want their children to conform and play by the school rules...Lights On® parents want their children to continually question and be proud of who they are so they can step into the fullness of what it means to be authentically 'them'.
They recognise their role is to make sure their child has what it takes to succeed from the inside-out so they can continually learn through life playing to their strengths with their lights fully switched on.
They are proactive in removing themselves from the day-to-day decision making for their teen to ensure they can start to think and act independently, make choices for themselves, as they prepare for life beyond the family home.
It's the fastest way to get your child learning from the inside-out using my Lights On® process so that you can have success FAST.
isn’t like anything you will have tried before.
Get your teen back in the driving seat of their learning so they can embrace, at a much deeper, the life adventure ahead of them.
Help your teen discover the one thing they would like to wake up every morning to learn, so they can do what they love and love what they do.
Empower your teen find the courage to step into the fullness of who they are and be brave to explore and discover the opportunities to live a passion and purpose-driven life.
Your teen's brain is a constant work-in-progress, changing structurally over their adolescent years, so take they can literally take advantage of this and neuro-hack their way to success.
Your teen's reality will be determined by where they are focusing their attention and by being more aware of where their thoughts are leading them.
Ensure your teen starts to use this amazing time to gain more responsibility and independence, so they have what it takes to play to their strengths and navigate around their obstacles.
This is definitely a case where less is more so in this REBOOT programme I'm giving you only what you need to get results fast. No FLUFF!
I appreciate that this is going to be a new way to look at your child's education - that is why it works! So to guide you through this transformational adventure, and make sure you become confident in your role as a Lights On® parent, if you want this option I will meet you and your teen in a virtual group coaching call once a week for six weeks.
Here I can get to understand the dynamic between you both, and see where your obstacles are, and facilitate your teen to start opening up and taking ownership of their learning.
Sometimes you might have questions during the week that you want immediate answers to. So for anyone going through this programme we have a safe space where you can communicate directly with me and my team, as well as get support from others in the programme.
I also use this space to share any relevant research, thoughts, or films I come across that are relevant to your transformation.
"Absolutely love what you guys are doing. I'm finding my lights have been switched on with regards to my boys' learning, and education in general, and my relationship with them, as I help them navigate the often choppy waters of learning! "
"I wanted to gain an understanding of the Lights On approach to learning, with the viewpoint of seeing how I could incorporate this into my tutoring. I wanted to find a way to re-engage them and keep them passionate about the work they are doing. As a tutor, it has given me a more flexible and creative approach to take with my tutees. I have noticed that in the lesson both students were more focused. I would recommend Lights On to other parents definitely!"
BONUS TRAINING 1 - Brain Health
Adolescence is such an important time for your teen’s brain development that I’m going to give you this module to make sure your family starts to look after their brains as much as their health. So I've decided to include this bonus to make maintaining a healthy brain as EASY as possible for you and your family.
BONUS TRAINING 2 - The Neuroscience Of Learning
Gain a deeper understanding of the neuroscience behind learning so you can transform your child's mindset by shifting YOUR OWN! The way your child thinks and acts about learning is a reflection of you in more ways than you think. That means when you give up, they learn to give up! Sounds harsh but true. So in this bonus, we're going to start understanding learning right down to the neurons!
And the best bit? When young people understand learning at the level of the neuron they become more willing to embrace mistakes.
BONUS 3 - Autographing Your Work With Excellence
If you can get your teen to realise the full potential of excellence within them then you’ll start to see shifts big time. You really want to start to see them engage at a deeper level and you can do that through draft critique.
This training will give you everything you need to implement effective draft critique, step-by-step!
In this training we're going to go deeper into developing our mindset and how to can start to grow our resilience so your teen has what it takes to push through any obstacles that stand in their way.
This is always an important process for parents too, because the strength of your mindset will definitely be being pushed with life as a teen, and you may find that your own feelings around failure are getting in the way of your relationship.
SO YOU ARE DEFINITELY IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF:
You want 2018 to have been the year where you took life-changing action for your family.
You are ready do think and act differently to ensure your family starts to become calmer, happier and full of fun ready to live a purpose and passion-driven life.
You are ready to feel rejuvenated and inspired because we never get TIME back and staying stuck is no longer an option.
YOU ARE READY TO DO WHAT IT TAKES TO TRANSFORM YOUR FAMILY'S LIFE!
My adventure began when my daughter began complaining her learning was 'fenced in' at school. At this point I was just a parent, like you, experiencing first hand the constraints of our education system. With my daughter's lights rapidly dimming, I knew I had to do something about it.
Little did I know taking action would lead me on one of the most exciting adventures of my life.
My first steps were to start flexi-schooling. Then I began to volunteer closely with my daughter's school. It was after I led a team of 106 kids and parents to stage an award winning circus (which won the NCPTA Gold Star Award for changing the life of the school) that I knew there was no going back...
I was hooked by seeing our children's eyes light up as they were given the opportunity to embrace being wonderfully and authentically 'them'.
As a parent that is surely all we want; our children to be happy. I've come to know that our children are happiest when they are empowered to lead their learning; when they can tap into their passions and develop their talents. When we get involved in making that happen for them our lights go on too.
So I hope you'll join me and start on your own Lights On® adventure and make sure your family is ready to live a purpose and passion-driven life, where happiness comes from within.
Here's to switching on some lights together!
When you invest in Lights On® Teen and Parent Reboot Camp you will get:
Instant access to your training modules with video and exercises that will transform you from thinking with the old-school mindset to becoming a Lights On parent. (Value £7000)
Plus you’ll get 6 x LIVE group coaching sessions to answer your questions, clear up doubts, and to keep you and your teen motivated and on track. (VALUE £6000)
And remember you’ll be getting the bonus bundles around Brain Health, Autographing Your Work With Excellence, Neuroscience of Learning. (Value £688)
But what you are really getting - which you can’t place a value on - are the tangible results of moving your teen from being bored, disengaged and apathetic to becoming open and ready to start to take ownership of their learning.
The mistake most parents make is they think about the financial cost and choose the "do-it-yourself route" to save money. What they don't take into account is, how FAST they need to see results. If your teen's lights have been out for a while behavioural habits will have set in and their mental wellbeing will be suffering.
The cost of every mistake YOU might make, because this will be a new way of thinking for you and your teen, and the time that passes whilst you try to navigate the obstacles that are going to come up for you, needs to be seen as a real cost too. It is the cost of not solving this problem in the next 6 weeks.
Then the other mistake parents make is "Okay, can you do it for me?" Like buying in a tutor.
Yes, of course I can. Really quickly!
However that leaves YOU out of the equation and you won't get the chance to break some of the habits that you will, inevitably, need to change too. So you might then find yourself back in the same boat later down the line - because you were not on the same page as your teen. And this is crucial if you want long-lasting transformation - this is about you being the change-agent within your home. My role is to empower you to do that by helping you see where you need to focus your attention for your specific situation. See it as you drawing on my expertise to become the expert in your home.
So if you want me to be there alongside you and your teen, which will give you the fastest possible shifts, choose the VIP option.
Plus if you act super fast you'll save a further £250 by being able to secure one of the 5 places I'm offering as a FAST ACTING BONUS, because I'm looking for parents who don't have to think twice about this being a smart investment for their family.
I also have a 90-Day Money-Back Guarantee which you can read about below.
ONE TIME PAYMENT
✅ Learning Portal with Step-By-Step Weekly Actions
✅ Private Members Only Community
✅ BONUS TRAINING PACK
Total Value: £688
First 5 to register get a Fast Acting Bonus of one kickstarter group coaching call.
✅ Learning Portal with Step-By-Step Weekly Actions
✅ 6 LIVE Group Coaching Sessions With Julia
✅ Private Members Only Community
✅ BONUS TRAINING PACK
Total Value: £688
I’m not offering a magic wand here, if you sign up and don’t put in the work, if your teen doesn’t show up then you are unlikely to see any shift. So you really need to be ready to show up and commit to moving forward.
However, what I am going to offer is a 30 Day money-back guarantee if you show up, and do all the work AND you come to me with your problems, AND your teen will engage with me, and you haven’t moved forward, then I will offer your money back. This guarantee is not valid if you join and expect change without putting in the time, effort and energy that is needed.
Because you CAN do it.
Me and my team are going to be there to make sure you do.
Complete the form below and we'll let you know as soon an enrolment is open.